What does it take to be free?
(the MLG [Military girlfriend] version)
*it takes keepin it together whe he says "baby, i am being deployed"
*it takes sayin that final goodbye not knowin if u will ever see him again.
*it takes havin to let go when they call that final formation.
*it takes cryin ur eyes out the whole way home from the base b/c u already miss him.
*it takes never knowin when u will hear from him again.
* it takes keepin up with ur cell "just in case".
*it takes many sleepless nights of endless crying.
*it takes wakin up the next morning and carryin on with life seemingly perfect.
*it takes gettin used to that gut wrenching feelin u get when he says "baby i'll be on a mission for a few days,
but don't worry i'll be fine".
* it takes dealin with an addiction for anything "military oriented".
*it takes havin to learn a whole new language just so u can communicate with ur soldier.
(ex. RPG, IED, FOB, BUDs, and MWR)
*it takes learnin how to pull it all together when u are on the phone with him when in reality u are fallin to
pieces.
*it takes sacrificing a "girls night out" so you can make a care package full of his favorite things.
*it takes havin pride in ur man and all that he does and puttin up with ppl who don't feel the same.
*it takes wipin the tears from ur eyes at a ball game when they begin to play The National Anthem.
*it takes realizing never to take anything for granted... not even a phone call.
*it takes missin someone so much that it honestly hurts.
*it takes puttin urself second and being there for ur soldier no matter what.
*it takes keepin sane that last 24 hours before u see them for the first time in months.
*it takes learnin to pack six months of emotions into two weeks.
*it takes lettin him go again after that two weeks is up and realizin that u are only half way there.
*it takes gettin used to the person he will be once he comes home b/c of the war.
*it takes learnin all u can from this situation and knowin that u can make it through anything now.
*it takes the love and devotion of a miltary girlfriend...
THAT IS WHAT IT TAKES TO BE FREE...